Showing posts with label guest post. Show all posts
Showing posts with label guest post. Show all posts

Monday, November 14, 2011

New Series: AP

During Liza's pregnancy I compulsively read everything I could find online about natural birth and eventually, homebirth.  I would go so far as to say I was addicted to the climactic eventuality of the birth story when the baby was born and the mother gushes about the wonders of natural childbirth.  I read and read and then I would read a little more.

Initially, my only goal was to bring Liza into this world as peacefully as possible, trusting and respecting my body and the physiological process of birth.  But, the more I learned about gentle birth, the more thought I gave to gentle parenting.  Now I see how a gentle and respectful birth is simply a stepping stone to treating my children with respect and dignity no matter their age.  

In this new blog series, we will explore the  8 Principles of Attachment Parenting and how we apply these principles in everday life:

Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth and Parenting
Feed with Love and Respect
Responds with Sensitivity
Use Nurturing Touch
Ensure Safe Sleep, Physically and Emotionally
Provide Consistent and Loving Care
Practice Positive Discipline
Strive for Balance in Personal and Family Life

Are you interested in contributing to this series as a guest post?  Send me an email at lmd328(at)gmail(dot)com and we can discuss the details.  

Do you consider yourself an Attached Parent? 

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

a stretchy wrap.

Lindsay is a full-time mum to her own little Henry.  She loves natural childbirth, breastfeeding, living naturally and traveling with her little family in tow.  She, occasionally and hopefully more in the near future, blogs at Henry's Mama.

Well, I must admit that I am a bit flattered that I was asked to write a guest post on here! I hope I can fulfill my task to Laura's liking ;)

I seriously can't remember when I decided that I was going to wear my baby but I know that I bought my first wrap when I was 17 weeks pregnant. It was this crazy hybrid wrap that had a buckle around the waist. I thought it was genius! Fast forward 25 weeks and a forceps delivery later and I found that I couldn't walk upright, never mind wear my baby!! It wasn't until about 3 weeks post partum that I decided to give it a go. It was interesting. The wrap just wasn't supportive enough for a newborn's wiggly head and I didn't feel like it was holding up all 12 of his pounds.

It was while I was at a festival in my town (a beer festival nonetheless) that I noticed a woman carrying her baby in what looked like the best thing in the world! I stopped her and got all of the information I could out of her and purchased a Moby wrap the next day.

I must admit that when I opened  the bag and pulled out 5.5 metres of fabric, I was a little intimidated. I went onto YouTube and began watching loads of videos about how to wrap it on me and how to get Henry into it. It took me a few tries to get it just right but after the first few tries, it becomes second nature!

The thing I love about a stretchy wrap is how soft it is and how it cocoons the baby to your body. It is perfect for a snuggly newborn because they feel nice and warm and get to move with your body just like they have done for the past nine months. They also get to hear your voice and your heart beat. It's a great transition for them.

The practical information: 
The Moby wrap is made from a sweatshirt like material and is 5.5 metres long. I am 5'10" with a few extra pounds and found it to be plenty long enough. Some other stretchy wraps are made with thinner, stretchier material but that's why I chose the Moby- it felt sturdier to me. I was able to use it comfortably up to 15lbs. The manufacturer says that it can be worn up to 35lbs. I have a few friends who have worn stretchies up to about 20lbs but in my experience, the wrap does tend to sag a bit, no matter how tight you wrap it when your baby gets heavier. The other thing is that babies over 20lbs should go on your back as humans are not physically designed to carry that kind of weight on our fronts. I personally would not do a back carry with a stretchy because I don't think they are sturdy enough. I think the Moby is the perfect newborn wrap so you can cuddle up close and keep an eye on them.

It is machine washable and dries relatively quickly though I wouldn't recommend putting it in the dryer too often as it does tend to shrink a bit. (It stretches back out in a few wears though). It is completely adjustable to whoever is wearing it because each individual wraps it around themselves- so it's great for Dads as well!

I loved my Moby when my little man was small. We have worn it in Scotland, Germany, France, America (and obviously England). It has saved me in the airport because I have my hands free to go through check in and security (some airports over here let me keep it on since there was no metal buckles). It kept me warm in the winter and allowed me to do the housework when Henry just wouldn't be put down. It has seriously saved me on so many occasions! I am a total woven wrap convert now but I am sure I will pull out the Moby when the next little one enters our lives :).

This is us in Scotland when Henry was 8 weeks old. He is a bit lopsided. He fell asleep and it was a quick wrap!

My favourite part about wearing Henry when he was small- I could rock him to sleep in it and then eat dinner out with my friends and family. Brilliant! (Now his head is past my chin!)

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Guest post at Alternative Mama!

Please check out my guest post, Evolving Thoughts and Breastfeeding, at Alternative Mama's blog.  This post circulated in my brain for a long time and I felt Alternative Mama's blog was the perfect platform to explain my current thoughts on breastfeeding my sweetest little girl.

Please check it out and, ummm, leave a comment.

You do know that blog comments are the new hug, right?  Right.

Friday, February 4, 2011

Q&A #10 - What are the drawback to cloth?

Thank you, Imogen, for your guest post about drawbacks to cloth!

I am relatively new to cloth, but it’s fair to say that I’m hooked already. There’s so
much choice available nowadays, and Squish and I are thoroughly enjoying exploring
our options.

However, cloth isn’t for everybody. And however much I adore our soft fluffy
nappies, there are some drawbacks. For us, those drawbacks are 100% worth it and
definitely don’t outweigh all of the great things about cloth, but this series
wouldn’t be balanced without a nod to the downsides.

Drawback #1 – Laundry

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that cloth nappies (as we call them here
in the UK) take a little more upkeep than ‘sposies. Depending on how many you
have, you’ll probably have to do some extra loads of laundry. Right now, Squish
is still exclusively breastfed so we don’t have to deal with toxic poops. Therefore,
his nappies just get thrown into a normal 40° wash with the rest of our laundry.
Sometimes, if one gets stained, I’ll have to do a separate 60° wash to get the stain out.
Occasionally I will soak a stained nappy, but most stains come right out after a few
hours in the sun (if we ever get any… good old British weather…)

In all honesty, if you own enough nappies (and we’re certainly getting there) you will
easily be able to get away with just one or two extra loads each week.

Of course, when your baby starts chowing down on more than just the boob, those
poops won’t be quite so easy to shift. This is when it can come in very handy to use
some kind of liner in your nappy. Disposable biodegradable liners are ideal, as you
can just shake them straight into a toilet without any kind of sluicing involved.

Drawback #2 – Maintenance & Storage

Now, this is dependant very much on what kind of nappies you use. All cloth nappies
require more attention than just bringing the packet home and putting it somewhere
near your nappy changing station.

I use pocket nappies mostly. I find them to be slim fitting, versatile and available in a
vast range of colours, designs and styles. However, they do take a little preparation.
When all of my nappies are dry, I have to take the time to stuff them with the inserts
and boosters. It doesn’t take long, but nevertheless it’s a job that needs to be done.
Cloth nappies also take up quite a bit more space than disposables, so I have a
dedicated cupboard for them next to our changing area.

Drawback #3 – Leakage

Leakage doesn’t have to be an issue with cloth nappies, but unfortunately it
sometimes is – especially if, like me, you are new to cloth and are figuring out what
fits your baby best. And, because babies change shape as they grow, you will have to
re-evaluate your options on a regular basis.

The thing with cloth nappies is that they are not a one-size-fits-all option. You will
even find the same thing with disposables – some brands will fit your baby a lot better
than others. Many parents rush out and buy an expensive kit of cloth nappies when
they are pregnant, and end up selling them all on a few weeks after their babies are
born, because that specific shape of nappy isn’t right for their baby. The best thing
you can do is buy different types of nappy second-hand to find one that suits.

One thing to bear in mind also is that however nice those soft, fluffy all-in-ones
and pocket nappies are, nothing can beat a good two-part nappy to contain those
frighteningly huge breastfed baby poop explosions. They certainly hold up much
more reliably than a ‘sposie!

Drawback #4 – Transportation

As we previously found in Drawback #2, cloth nappies take up more space
than ‘sposies. So, when you are out and about with your baby, they are naturally
going to fill your changing bag that bit more. This is part of the reason why many
parents who use cloth only do so when they are at home (and I have to admit,
sometimes for quick outings I just sling a ‘sposie and some packeted wet wipes into
my handbag rather than take the time to pack my cloth kit – when you have more than
one child, time is of the essence!).

However, some nappies take up less space than others. Going for a two-part nappy
option (a fitted or prefold nappy with a separate waterproof wrap) is ideal for when
you and your baby are on the move, as there is generally no need to change a wrap
unless it is soiled.

Drawback #5 – Expense

To be honest, I was debating writing this point at all. Yes, cloth nappies are more
expensive per piece than disposables. You will usually spend between £5 - £20 on one
new nappy, depending on what kind you go for. But this is a no-brainer, obviously,
because you won’t be throwing that nappy in the bin! And the great thing about a
good cloth nappy is that it will hold its value, meaning you can sell it on at a later date
and reclaim some of your initial outlay. By using disposables, you will spend around
£300 (around $500, I think) in the first year of your baby’s life. You can easily spend
half of that on cloth to last for the entire time your baby is wearing nappies, and you’ll
be able to sell them on or use them for future children.

(…Unless of course, like me, you develop a full blown addiction and end up spending
extortionate amounts of money on cloth. Well, a girl’s gotta have some kind of vice!)

Unfortunately, most children’s clothes are designed to fit over ‘sposies. Some brands
are roomier than others, as are certain styles. European children’s clothes tend to be
designed with room for a cloth nappy (and the styles are funky, too).

It also very much depends on what kind of nappy your baby is wearing. If, for
example, they are wearing a heavily-boosted night nappy, they will probably just be
wearing a comfy sleepsuit anyway so will have plenty of room to encase the extra
bulk.

Like everything else when it comes to cloth, it’s all about experimenting and finding
what works for you. Some of Squish’s nappies won’t fit under his jeans, but leave
room to spare in a romper. He has some AIO’s (all-in-ones) that are almost as slim as
a ‘sposie. Modern cloth nappies come in such a vast array of styles, you’re bound to
find something that suits.

When it comes down to it, nothing is perfect. There’s no denying that disposable
nappies are more convenient than cloth, but clothie mamas will always tell you that
the extra work is worth it. To be honest, I can’t really remember what it was like
before. Our nappy maintenance routine of laundry, drying and stuffing is second
nature now. Even if you find that for you it’s too much work to use cloth full-time,
partial use will still make a positive difference to the environment and (hopefully)
your bank balance.

Imogen O’Reilly is a semi-crunchy mama of two boys, Monkey and Squish, and
resides in Devon, UK. She is fiercely passionate about breastfeeding, natural
birth and the importance of respectful and gentle child-rearing, and spends
inordinate amounts of time writing about those things at her blog, Alternative Mama.


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What drawbacks to cloth irritate you the most?




Sunday, January 30, 2011

Tell Me About Wool!

My friend, Mandi, is my first guest blogger!  She loves a baby in wool.......
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I hate to admit it so publicly, but I am addicted to wool diaper covers.

Soakers, Shorties & Longies
Knit, Jersey, Upcycled & Interlock
I can not help myself.
I.Love.Wool.

Like any type of cloth diaper, there are many types of wool covers to choose from to suit your own needs, taste and budget.

Wool covers come in a wide variety of styles.
There are typical covers like pull-on soakers as well as snap-on or tie-on wraps.
My personal favorite is using wool as not only a diaper cover, but also as clothing.
Nothing is cuter than a pair of wool shorties, longies or skirties. 
 Cute AND functional.

As many style options as there are available, there are just as many choices for the type of wool used.
There's super stretchy and durable wool interlock.
Soakers made out of wool interlock are my fave for under clothes as it seems less bulky to me.

Sustainablebabyish (Sloomb) Soaker, Embellished Wild Child Woolies soaker and Rainbow Water interlock longies

Many snapping covers are made of thin, yet absorbent jersey or crepe wool.
If you're looking for an alternative to the typical PUL covers, here's your solution.

My personal favorite and biggest cloth diaper budget buster is knit wool.
This is where the heart of my addiction lies.
There's a whole world out there of wahm dyers and knitters tempting me with their beautiful creations.
 My favorite yarns come from Mosaic Moon
Now, if only I could learn how to knit...

You can even recycle those old wool sweaters collecting dust and turn it into your own upcycled diaper cover.
Or if you are sewing-challenged like myself, you can very cheaply buy them on etsy or hyena cart.
 My personal favorite...Woolybottoms

So, yeah, these are cute.
But, why wool?!?!
Wool is naturally water resistant and breathable while at the same time it can absorb up to 30% of its own weight in moisture.
Really it is the perfect material for a diaper cover.

Many people may be intimidated by caring for wool covers.
But, fear not!
It's quite simple.
Wool covers do not need to be washed with every use. Only if they get soiled should they be washed immediately after using.
Wool with typical use should be washed once every few weeks. I wash about once a month. More frequently with heavier use or if my little one is wetting heavily.
While wool interlock can be machine washed, I choose to hand wash all my wool
Here is a good, in-depth tutorial on washing wool.
My method is to first rinse all my covers in semi-warm water.
Then, using my favorite wool wash, I fill the sink with tepid water and the correct amount of the wool wash.
Wash, let it soak for about 30 minutes, drain and then, roll up in a towel to gently squeeze out excess water.
Lie flat to dry and Voila!
Even though using my favorite wool wash requires no extra lanolizing step, I  like to keep lanolin spray on hand for touch-ups between washings and spraying in the areas that need just a little extra moisture barrier.

So, there you have it!
Everything you need to know to fall in love with wool!

Mandi Sanders is a breastfeeding, cloth diapering, babywearing mama to 2 precious boys both born at home in Mississippi. While her love of wool diaper covers give her extra points in the granola department, she allows for equal opportunity enjoyment for all things crunchy. Mandi loves blogging about natural family living and her adventures therein.


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Do you use wool?
What type of wool covers do you prefer?